We are 63, been married 25 yrs. Love her deeply. Always been loyal. I am highly sexed and want to play, to have her enjoy exploring our sexuality. I'd be happy if we could perhaps watch an occasional X -movie use some mild "toys" ...nothing too extreme. But, her strong Baptist values (Dad was a minister) is always standing in the way of trying to win her over to "experiment". She's let me try a few times, but it's always with a neg. attitude and takes the fun out of it, mostly. I'm am constantly frustrated as she is so very attractive, beautiful legs, beautiful heart. I respect her so much, but get aggravated since I sometimes feel like we are on our tirst date and she resists my overtures. How can I ease her into loosing up. I've tried my best but she's pretty resistant. She was more open when we first got married. After two kids...all the rules seemed to change. I need some advise ...with detailed examples if possible...this issue is rapidly becoming a big deal and threatens our marriage possibly.