I've known this person for 30 years, when I was 16 we were in a relationship but I was shy and timid. He was 19 at the time. He left to go to the military, got married to another woman and left me broken hearted but when e returned I was in love with someone else. Now that we are older he's still angry with me for not waiting on him, because he hated the guy I was with. I'm assuming that he never let the pass go and I didn't either, but we'd talked over the years, just never could make the pass become the future.