He owns his home (paid his mortgage off in10 yrs), but after a trip out west and back in 2004, has never unpacked any more than his most basic necessities of life (some kitchen stuff, clothes and toiletries only). It bothers him but - while he is very anal he is organizationally challenged spatially and has some issues - he refuses to unpack so his house is filled with boxes in most rooms, leaving walking trails only. What is wrong and how can I help ?