My wife and I had sex one time in a month and then I was out of town on a business trip for 9 days. Needless to say, when I got home, I missed her immensely, both in a family way and in a physical way. When approaching her in bed the first night I was home, she declined sex, saying 1. she wasn't in the mood, 2. I always hurt her, and 3. she "just wanted someone to hold her and like her". We have been together for 33 years and I have always been a faithful and loving husband. I have never mistreated her in any way, have never strayed on my vows, and give her the best of everything. I have never been told anything remotely like "you always hurt me" or she just wants someone to like her. After thinking about the situation over the next few days, (it was four days until she was "in the mood", it became increasingly a possibility in my mind that she cheated on me while I was gone. I have no proof and she denied it, but those statements seemed and still seem VERY bizarre for our relationship. They have haunted me for the last 6 weeks since it happened. What do you think?