I got to know this man online who seemed.warm, kind and.wonderful then I.met him for real.and he was cold, indifferent, defensive, disconnected and was busy with his gadgets the entire time. He said he was obviously depressed and didn't know he would act this way around me.and he would seek help as he loves.me.deeply and wants to have a future with.me. Shouldi believe him? How can someone be so warm.and loving from.a distance then be the complete opposite on real life not to mention detached, selfish and finds a good excuse for everything? He keeps calling and e-mailing.me.saying hw can never live without me Is he capable.of falling on love and if.not why is he chasing me? Thank you.