When my aunt was in high school she met her boyfriend that would later become her husband, they now have 2 kids. Of course back in high school my aunt didnt know they would get married and have children. She stopped hanging out with friends and only spent time with her boyfriend because in her mind, he was all she needed. Now my 18 year old brother is going out with a girl, he loves her but my whole family hates her. She is mean to my other brother and sisters and disrespecful to my mom and dad. My mother wont say anything to him because she knows he would go spiraling over the edge and hate all of us because he cant see how much we dont like his girlfriend. He bluntly told all of his friends he didnt need them in his life because he had his girlfriend. my question is, why are some people willing to give up everything because they are in love? Im sure they think there partner will never leave them but i know in the back of their mind they still know that there is a possibility their lover could leave them. Why is it that some people are like this? And why is it that some people would never dream of turning there backs on friends and family?