I have a 22 year old daughter and the man ive been married to for 26 years is not her father, although he has raised her as his own.about 8 years ago we had a big blow up and he told my daughter that he was not her dad !! so now after 8 years my daughter has contacted her real father. should i have told her father that raised her what she did?? I choose not to because i felt it should have came from my daughter when she was ready to tell him. was it wrong for me not to tell him? and was is disrespectful of me to not tell him??? please help